This is important because when you start a new life with someone they do a lot of things differently from you. This enneagram is great at adapting to new situations.
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Hence, this is a great trait to have that the type 3 enneagram brings into relationships as it helps them see the good in situations, remain calm and stress free and bring a certain positive attitude to the relationship which will inevitably affect their partner too – in a good way! Adaptability It helps us keep the stress low and calmed down. For example, we see the opportunities in even the most difficult situations because we are on the lookout for them and don’t just think and perceive everything negatively. The benefits of being optimistic are many. It means that we expect the best to happen in whatever circumstances we find ourselves in however that does not mean we do not prepare for the worst. To be optimistic means to have a positive outlook in life and in the things we are currently engaged in. This is a very good trait to have it is great in every sphere of life especially the relationships we are involved in because of the uncertainty present therein. Here are some good traits the type 3 enneagram has that come in handy in a relationship! Optimism In this section we will look at the good and bad traits that an enneagram type 3 brings into the romantic relationships they are involved in. Enneagram Type 3 & Romantic Relationships This inculcates a sense of jealousy in type 3 enneagrams. However, deep down, they have this fear that they may fail and not achieve their dreams or successes and this scares and depresses them especially when others are excelling in their life and the eyes of others. They want to be worthy of the love and recognition of others they want to achieve great things that benefit or impress people and hence be celebrated by them. The basic fear of type 3 enneagrams arises from not achieving what they desire deeply. At this point, they encourage others and help them move towards their dreams. This is exactly what the achiever desires. At their best, fulfilling their desire of being the top performer, type 3s are well known and regarded amongst their peers and they are considered sources of inspiration. People with this type usually define the term success according to others views and opinions and they work towards this so called success to gain respect and status in the society. They want others to know about their achievements and appreciate them or show them recognition in some way. The basic desire of an Achiever is to feel valuable and worthy of attention. They will develop a habit of exhibitionisn and arrogant talk that is centered around their strengths and successes.
These individuals are extremely conscious of how they appear to others and if they feel under-recognized they will make desperate attempts to grab the attention of others.
If they can’t have happiness then no one should! If it gets serious, they can become obsessive with ruining things for others especially if it reminds them of what they could not achieve. If they are insecure and feel humiliated, they will try to ensure that others do not succeed either so that others feel it was the situation that caused the failure and not the person themself. When their personality integrates, usually because their fear has taken over or they are experiencing failure at multiple fronts, the type 3 enneagram’s darker traits come to life. However, they are also concerned about how others think of them and their image in the public which is sometimes very stressful. These individuals are known to be very confident and have high levels of self efficacy, determination and the will to compete with others. They are very hard working putting in much time and energy in their work in order to achieve the success they desire! Here are some bad traits or behaviours the type 3 enneagram brings along to a romantic relationship they are in:īefore we look at these traits in detail, we will introduce the type 3 enneagram! The Achiever – Type 3 EnneagramsĪ type 3 enneagram is also called the ‘Achiever’ because of their desire that drives them to accomplish the big things in life. Here is a list of the good traits this enneagram brings to relationships where they are involved intimately:
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